Eloping in Pennsylvania is all about creating a day that feels like you. But before you head into the woods, book a venue, or exchange your vows, there’s one essential step: making sure your marriage is legally recognized. This guide breaks down everything you need to know about Pennsylvania marriage licenses, self-uniting options, costs, waiting periods, and county-specific details—so you can walk into your wedding day stress-free and confident.
Why You Need a Marriage License in Pennsylvania
A marriage license is the official document that allows you to get married in the state. Without one, your ceremony won’t be recognized by the law — even if you’ve planned the most meaningful, heartfelt day. Think of it as the foundation: once the paperwork is taken care of, you’re free to design your wedding or elopement exactly how you want.
Pennsylvania is known for being especially flexible compared to other states. In addition to the traditional marriage license, couples here have access to the unique self-uniting marriage license, which allows you to legally marry without an officiant. This option is one reason many couples choose to elope or have a nontraditional wedding in Pennsylvania.
Step One: Applying for a Marriage License
Before your ceremony, you and your partner will need to apply for a marriage license at a county courthouse. Here’s how the process works:
- Apply together: Both partners must appear in person to apply. Some counties allow virtual applications, but in most cases you’ll need to visit the courthouse.
- Identification: Bring valid photo ID (like a driver’s license or passport) and possibly your Social Security card or number.
- Cost: The fee ranges from $50–$100, depending on the county.
- Waiting period: Pennsylvania requires a 3-day waiting period before you can use your license, so plan ahead.
- Expiration: Once issued, your license is valid for 60 days, giving you flexibility in scheduling your ceremony.
Pro tip: Apply for your license in the same county where your ceremony will take place — it makes logistics easier, especially if you choose a self-uniting license that requires courthouse approval.
Step Two: Choosing Your Type of Marriage License
Traditional Marriage License
This is the standard option most couples are familiar with. It requires a registered officiant, such as a judge, minister, celebrant, or justice of the peace, to perform the ceremony and sign the license.
Self-Uniting Marriage License
Here’s where Pennsylvania stands out. A self-uniting license allows you and your partner to marry yourselves without an officiant. All that’s required is the two of you plus two witnesses who sign the license.
This option is rooted in Pennsylvania’s Quaker history, but today it’s available to anyone — no religious affiliation required. Many couples love this route because it makes their wedding day feel even more personal and intimate.
Step Three: Meeting Legal Requirements
No matter which license you choose, here are the basics you’ll need to meet:
- Witnesses: Traditional licenses typically don’t require witnesses (your officiant signs instead). Self-uniting licenses require two.
- Age: Both partners must be at least 18. If you’re 16–17, parental consent is required. Under 16 requires court approval.
- Previous marriages: If you’ve been married before, bring documentation of divorce or a spouse’s death certificate.
- Language needs: Some counties offer interpreters if needed — ask ahead.
Where to Apply for a Marriage License in Pennsylvania
You must apply at a county courthouse, but the rules can vary slightly depending on location. For example:
- Philadelphia County: Offers online applications and requires scheduling an appointment.
- Allegheny County (Pittsburgh area): Also offers online applications with in-person pickup.
- Smaller rural counties: Often require in-person visits only.
Check your county’s Register of Wills office for the most accurate, up-to-date info.
Why Pennsylvania’s Self-Uniting License is So Special
Pennsylvania is one of the very few states that allows couples to legally marry themselves. This is huge for couples who:
- Want an intimate just-us elopement without an officiant.
- Value the symbolism of declaring vows privately.
- Plan a wedding in a location where officiants may be hard to coordinate (like a mountaintop or remote state park).
Having witnesses is still required — but they can be close friends, family, or even strangers you meet along the trail if you’re eloping in nature.
FAQs About Legally Getting Married in Pennsylvania
1. Can we apply for a marriage license online?
Some counties allow you to start the process online, but most still require you to appear in person to finalize.
2. How long does it take to get a marriage license?
Plan for at least three days due to the waiting period. Many couples apply a week or two before their wedding.
3. Do we have to be Pennsylvania residents?
No — out-of-state couples can also marry in PA, making it a popular destination for elopements.
4. What happens if my license expires?
If the 60 days run out before your ceremony, you’ll need to reapply and pay the fee again.
Tips to Keep the Legal Process Stress-Free
- Plan ahead: Apply for your license at least a week before your wedding to avoid last-minute stress.
- Bring extra cash: Some courthouses don’t accept cards for marriage license fees.
- Ask questions: Rules can vary by county — call ahead to confirm.
- Don’t forget witnesses: Especially important for self-uniting ceremonies.
Making It Legal — Then Making It Yours
Getting your marriage license is just one piece of the puzzle — but once it’s handled, you can focus on creating a wedding or elopement day that’s totally you. Whether that means a quiet ceremony under Pennsylvania’s towering pines, exchanging vows beside a waterfall, or gathering loved ones for a backyard celebration, the legal side doesn’t have to be overwhelming.
The best part? Pennsylvania gives you options, flexibility, and the chance to design a wedding day that feels authentic to your love story.
Next Steps: If you’re looking for inspiration on how to turn your legal marriage into an unforgettable experience, check out my Elope in Pennsylvania Guide for tips on planning your dream day.
