If you are planning to get married in Virginia, one of the first things you’ll want to understand is how the legal side works. Whether you are planning a large wedding, an intimate ceremony, or a simple courthouse elopement, the process for getting legally married in Virginia is straightforward once you know the steps.
This guide breaks down exactly how to get married in Virginia, including how to get your Virginia marriage license, who can officiate, witness requirements, costs, and important rules to know before your ceremony.
If you are still deciding where your ceremony should take place, you might also enjoy my guide to the best places to elope in Virginia, which highlights scenic overlooks, waterfalls, and mountain locations across the state.
If you want a clear checklist without digging through government websites, this is for you.
Step 1: Apply for a Virginia Marriage License
To legally get married in Virginia, you must first obtain a Virginia marriage license.
The good news? Virginia keeps it simple.
Where to Apply
You can apply at any Circuit Court Clerk’s Office in Virginia. You do not have to apply in the county where your ceremony will take place.
For example:
- If you live in Richmond but are getting married in Charlottesville, you can apply in either location.
- If you are coming from out of state, you can apply in any Virginia county before your ceremony.
You must apply in person.
What You Need to Bring
Both parties must appear together and bring:
- A valid government-issued photo ID such as a driver’s license or passport
- Your Social Security number
- Payment for the license fee
Some counties may also ask for proof of age, so it is always wise to check the specific Circuit Court website beforehand.
Step 2: Understand Virginia Marriage License Rules
Here are the key legal details you should know about getting married in Virginia.
Is There a Waiting Period?
No.
Virginia does not have a waiting period. Once you receive your marriage license, you can get married immediately.
How Long Is the License Valid?
A Virginia marriage license is valid for 60 days.
If you do not use it within 60 days, it expires and you must reapply.
How Much Does a Virginia Marriage License Cost?
The cost typically ranges from $30 to $33, depending on the county.
Payment methods vary by county. Some accept cash only, while others allow credit cards. Always confirm before going.
Step 3: Who Can Officiate a Wedding in Virginia?
To legally get married in Virginia, your ceremony must be performed by an authorized officiant.
Approved officiants include:
- Ministers authorized by a Virginia Circuit Court
- Judges
- Certain religious leaders who have been approved by the court
Virginia does not automatically recognize online ordinations. If a friend or family member wants to officiate, they must petition the Circuit Court in the county where the ceremony will take place for one-time authorization.
This is important. If the officiant is not properly authorized, your marriage may not be legally valid.
Always verify that your officiant is approved in Virginia before your ceremony.
Step 4: Are Witnesses Required in Virginia?
No.
Virginia does not require witnesses to sign your marriage license.
This makes it especially simple for couples planning:
- Private elopements
- Courthouse ceremonies
- Small, intimate weddings
Your officiant will complete and sign the license after the ceremony.
Step 5: After the Ceremony
After your ceremony:
- Your officiant completes the marriage license.
- They return it to the Clerk of Circuit Court.
- The court records your marriage.
You can then request certified copies of your marriage certificate for:
- Name changes
- Social Security updates
- Passport updates
- Insurance and legal documents
It usually takes a few weeks for the certified copy to be available.
Virginia Marriage Requirements
To legally get married in Virginia, you must meet these requirements:
- Both parties must be at least 18 years old
- Both parties must not already be married
- You must not be closely related
Virginia does not require a blood test.
You do not need to be a Virginia resident to get married in the state.
Can You Elope in Virginia?
Yes, and Virginia is a great state for it.
Because there is:
- No waiting period
- No witness requirement
- A straightforward license process
It is very easy to legally elope in Virginia.
Many couples choose to:
- Have a private ceremony in the mountains
- Get married at a scenic overlook
- Have a small gathering at a state park
- Visit the courthouse for a simple civil ceremony
As long as you have a valid Virginia marriage license and an authorized officiant, you are legally married.
What a Virginia Elopement Can Actually Look Like
Getting legally married is only one small part of the story. The rest of your day can look however you want it to.
Some couples exchange vows on a quiet overlook in Shenandoah National Park. Others hike to a waterfall, gather family at a small cabin, or celebrate with dinner after a private ceremony.
If you want to see how these kinds of days actually unfold, here are a few real Virginia elopements I’ve photographed.
Getting Married in Virginia as an Out-of-State Couple
You do not need to live in Virginia to get married there.
Out-of-state couples follow the same process:
- Apply in person at any Virginia Circuit Court.
- Receive your license immediately.
- Have your ceremony within 60 days.
That’s it.
Virginia is often considered one of the simpler East Coast states for destination weddings and elopements because of this flexibility.
Planning Ahead: Tips for a Smooth Experience
Even though Virginia makes it easy, here are a few helpful tips.
Apply a Few Days Early
While there is no waiting period, applying a few days before your ceremony gives you peace of mind in case:
- The courthouse has limited hours
- There are unexpected delays
- You need additional documentation
Confirm Office Hours
Many Circuit Courts have limited hours or close early on Fridays. Always check ahead.
Verify Your Officiant
Double-check that your officiant is authorized by a Virginia Circuit Court, especially if they are not a traditional clergy member.
Frequently Asked Questions About Getting Married in Virginia
Can you get married the same day you apply?
Yes. There is no waiting period in Virginia.
Do you need witnesses to get married in Virginia?
No. Witnesses are not required.
How long does it take to get a marriage license in Virginia?
The application process typically takes 15 to 30 minutes at the courthouse.
Can a friend officiate my wedding in Virginia?
Possibly. They must be authorized by the Circuit Court in the county where the ceremony will occur.
Is Virginia a Good State for an Elopement?
From a legal perspective, yes.
Virginia’s marriage laws are straightforward and flexible. No waiting period and no witness requirement make it especially convenient for couples planning something intimate.
Whether you are planning a mountaintop ceremony, a small gathering with family, or a simple courthouse wedding, the legal process will not add unnecessary stress.
If you’re specifically considering the Blue Ridge Mountains, I also have a full Shenandoah National Park elopement guide that walks through location ideas, permits, seasons, and planning tips for that area.
Ready to Plan Your Virginia Wedding or Elopement?
Once the legal side is handled, the fun part begins. From here, most couples start thinking about where their ceremony will take place and what they want their day to feel like.
You might want to explore:
How to Elope in Shenandoah National Park
A complete guide to permits, locations, seasons, and planning your day in the Blue Ridge Mountains.
Real Virginia Elopement Stories
See how other couples created relaxed, meaningful wedding days in the mountains. Take a look at this sunrise Shenandoah elopement at Stony Man Summit to see how the day actually unfolded.
Working With a Virginia Elopement Photographer
Learn how I help couples find locations, build relaxed timelines, and document the day as it naturally unfolds.
